What is me?

What takes up my time, thoughts, energy?  Right now I am back into health.  So, working out, recipes, thinking about food.  I also have a business.  Though it is my husbands and he is totally obsessed with it, it does take a lot of time and energy.  Dealing with him mostly.  I have one child still at home.  She is very attention seeking.  That takes a lot of attention and energy and can be quite exhausting.  I enjoy my books, cats, tv, church, but those things are on the back burner.  Mostly I am trying to keep my husband (business) and daughter at bay.  I need to seek some things for myself.  Without them.